I am not bimotic
My little durian is no more a durian. Coz his hair is now longer already. No more the spiky spiky cha-at cha-at feeling. Nonetheless, the pet name shall remain! Haha.
So, little durian is going to bring me to Vivo City tomorrow afer I knock off. So excited!
I fell in love with a tube dress at Osmose that is on the mannequin. But the staff told me all were sold out, even the display. My heart sank. But stocks were replenished the next day. That is today! I kept thinking aout the dress. And kept rattling to little durian how I love the dress. So, on my way home after school today, I decided to pop by the Osmose outlet at West Mall. And so lucky I was, the delivery uncle just arrived and they had the dress! Only 2 in stock. So I tried it on, happy with the fitting, and I bought it! Along with it was a matching short cardigan top which I also bought. It made my day. So pleased with myself.
Bought another white with blue stripe babydoll tube at Wisma yesterday. At first when I caught sight of it, another lady, in the late 30s, was looking at the top too, so being such a polite princess, I just waited for her to finish with the top before I laid my hands on it. There were 2 on the rack To my dismay, she took one away, and I supposed she went to try lar. And the only piece left on the rack was a L size. So I assumed the lady took either a S or M lar.
Let me describe to you how the lady looks like.
Those typical abit auntie lar, and abit plump and you can see the flesh starts to loosen and sags. Especially visble at the arms, as she was wearing a sleeveless.
So I predicted that she won't buy the top and will return it to the rack. Coz obviously the top won't look nice on her. (Ya I know I am being so mean and bimbotic but I can't help THINKING this way, and come on it's only a thought mah...)
So I decided to walk around the same level waiting for the top.
And there I was correct.
After about 20 mins I return to the same rack and saw 2 pieces. So I took both pieces and looked at the size. My god.
She tried the S size.
Because the tube was rubberised, even the L looked so tiny. And she, I am being honest here, fatter than me, tried the S. I guess she must have thought too highly of herself. Even I myself also thought that S might be too small for me.
Being realistic, I chose to try the L over the S. And it turns out not bad. but a little excess cloth at the waist area. So little durian got me the S size to try. He sais S looked better. But I kept thinking that S size made me look so fat. However, he still manage to convince me to take the S size, by saying that the L size made me look so flat. *
Shit him*When I asked the sales person for a new piece, I shun bian asked if they still have medium size available as it was not on the rack. She went to check and she came back with a M. I tried it on and the size was perfect. So happily I bought the M lor.
My main point is, I really cannot stand those people, especially aunties, die die want to squeeze in the smallest size top, thinking that they will fit when obviously their figure is too big for a small.. It is not that I have a fantastic figure and I can critisize these people, but their actions are totally senseless, illogical, and self-deceiving.
If you can't fit in the small size, then accept it. Choose a size that fits you and you will look better. At least better than being wrapped under a top that expose the layers of fat right? Don't it look so ugly? Look like a over wrapped dumpling, which Hokkien say "bao bak chang" Why still die also want to wear a small? You don't get a beauty award for expand a small size right?
This is so common among those 30-40 plus auntie who still trying very hard to keep themselves pretty and dressing up with up to date fashion. I have seen so many when I was working at GG<5. When asked what size they would like to try on, I almost fainted when they proudly told me S. And I felt so pity for the displayed small size apparel that was bring tried on.
Like me, yes I used to wear a small. But over years I have outgrown it. So, I wear M lor. Now I think I look so FAT when I am in a small. All my fatty areas seems to be magnified.
I really don't understand what those aunties were thinking.